Cum control, forced orgasm & forced ejaculation in BDSM

From forced orgasm to forced orgasm (up to 10 orgasms in a row), an incredible feeling! How so? It's simple, because our CUMELOT CUM CONTROL ® Forced Orgasm stimulator doesn't mimic the hand, anus or mouth like other masturbators, but offers you completely new, previously unknown sensations thanks to its revolutionary technology. It has 10 pulsation programs that lead to complete forced ejaculations in succession.

Let this device massage your throbbing cock until you're drained! … and if your top wants it, even against your will! All this is promised by the new CUMELOT CUM CONTROL ® stimulator for forced ejaculation of the submissive man. A new technology makes this possible! A total of 10 different pulsation programs ensure that the penis is repeatedly aroused and stimulated in a completely different way each time.

How do I use the masturbator for forced orgasm?

Moisten the penis and the inner surface of the masturbator with sufficient lubricant and insert the penis into the masturbator. Pressure also allows you to regulate the strength according to your requirements. At the touch of a button, you start the masturbator and switch from orgasm to orgasm during the next pulsation program.

What are the advantages of the CUMELOT CUM CONTROL ® masturbator for forced orgasm?

MEO ® develops functional products that are convincing due to the high quality materials used. The CUMELOT CUM CONTROL ® is a masturbator that, with 10 pulsation programs, reliably ensures you can enjoy varied forced ejaculation and achieve 10 orgasms in a row. Thanks to the velvety soft surface made of medical silicone and the pronounced structure, the masturbator just feels fantastic and stimulates your penis perfectly.

How does forced orgasm work with the CUMELOT CUM CONTROL ® masturbator and how is it different to normal masturbators?

Here’s how to have the Forced Orgasm of your dreams! Almost every male masturbator imitates a hand, mouth, vagina or anus. Not our CUMELOT CUM CONTROL ® masturbator. It has 10 extremely exciting, innovative pulsation programs that can be used consecutively until complete forced ejaculation.

Cum control using the CUMELOT ® stimulator:

Cum control is the opposite of forced ejaculation or milking. Cum control is the denial, delay or ruination of orgasm through orgasm control, known as cum control.

So what is cum control?

Cum control is an English term, “cum”, meaning to reach orgasm and “control”. This refers to delayed orgasm, usually under the guidance of a dominant partner, the top, or often even a strict master or implacable dominatrix. Normally, many men can only achieve orgasm once within a certain period of time. The aim of cum control (orgasm control) is to delay male orgasm as much as possible. Passive men enjoy subordinating themselves to the orders of the top and losing all control. Usually, the dominant partner repeatedly performs sexual acts on the sub. From stimulation using our CUMELOT ® CUM CONTROL, to using your hand, oral sex or anal sex, everything is conceivable – as long as the passive man does not achieve orgasm. This is why stimulation is interrupted over and over again, at the latest when orgasm should begin for the man. "Ejaculation forbidden", to put it simply. In this way, cum control can last for several days. Many men report the eventual development of a painful pulling sensation in the testicles. The man should then be allowed an orgasm at this stage at the latest – even by the toughest top!

Cum control (orgasm control in BDSM) instructions and tips from MEO:

Cum control or orgasm control is a variant in BDSM, whereby orgasm is either delayed for a long time or fast satisfaction occurs (e.g. through forced ejaculation). Unlike women, men can usually only orgasm once and then need a little more time. A delay leads to more intense orgasm. In principle, you can perform cum control on any man. It is possible to control, delay, refuse or even ruin orgasm. The Cumelot © CUM CONTROL stimulator supports you perfectly in doing so.

How cum control works in men:

Cum control works particularly well when the passive man is tied up, so he can no longer satisfy himself. In our BDSM shop, we offer you a wide range of bondage restraints and gags. When the passive man reaches the point just before orgasm, only a small touch of the penis is usually enough to orgasm. So being restrained is a great way to control orgasm even better. Here we also speak of bondage orgasm or BDSM orgasm.

Cum control: To stimulate his penis:

In the case of cum control, the penis must be constantly stimulated. This can be done by our CUMELOT © CUM CONTROL stimulator – or by hand, though this is much more complicated and demanding. Since cum control usually lasts longer, you should also always use a lubricant such as STROKE, our masturbation gel, or AQUAMEO, our water-based lubricating gel.

Cum control: Recognising imminent orgasm during cum control:

You can easily recognise the approaching orgasm by the fact that the penis briefly starts to twitch several times. That is the sign that ejaculation is about to happen. Once this moment is reached, further stimulation is simply stopped.

Cum control: Drawing out his orgasm:

When the point is reached where the man is just about to orgasm, you surround the glans with your thumb and forefinger and press firmly. This causes the erection to go down and the orgasm not to occur. You repeat this several times, then arouse your partner again with the CUMELOT © CUM CONTROL stimulator until just before climax and then don’t let him ejaculate. The pause between stimuli is often associated with pleasurable pain, which causes the controlled partner to be sexually aroused, but does not let him reach orgasm.

Cum control: Ruining his orgasm:

Another type of cum control is ruining orgasm. The bottom is so excited that he reaches the point-of-no-return, so he will definitely come to orgasm. From this point on, orgasm can no longer be stopped. If the man is on the verge of orgasm, it can be ruined so that it longer satisfies him. To do this, the finger must be pressed against the perineum with greater pressure. This closes the urethra and the semen cannot be ejaculated. Alternatively, two fingers can be inserted into the anus and the urethra pressed with the fingers near the prostate. It is even more common to refuse to permit orgasm at all. This means that orgasm is permanently delayed and no semen is ultimately ejaculated. Instead, the penis is locked into one of our NoPacha ® chastity belts, so that masturbation is impossible. A little tip from us: Some dirty talk will get him even more aroused!

Cum control for beginners:

How long should a cum control session take in BDSM? This clearly depends on when the submissive partner finally comes to orgasm. Beginners in the area of cum control usually take half an hour. To ensure that the bottom has no control, he should be firmly secured using hand and foot restraints and a spreading bar. The penis can then be stimulated again and again using the Cumelot © CUM CONTROL stimulator, without the restrained partner actually reaching climax.

Important: In principle, cum control is about constantly stimulating the bottom until he almost reaches orgasm, when the top stops stimulation. Instead, other BDSM toys are used, such as MEO ® nipple clamps, which provide further arousal but do not help him to reach orgasm.

Cum control can of course also be practised over several hours. However, a permanent erection can also cause pain, as the penis may not be used to a sustained erection. Not every man can reach this point. Some men can be aroused for several hours without it becoming uncomfortable for them. In the case of very long cum control, orgasm may even occur without further stimulation. Here, the bottom is so aroused that he suddenly ejaculates. He therefore experiences a breath-taking orgasm like never before and will go down on his knees to thank the top!

No Erection? A typical problem with cum control:

If you have problems with cum control and your penis is occasionally not aroused, a penis ring made of silicone from MEO ® can help with cum control. A penis ring ensures that the erection does not go down so quickly. In the case of particularly stubborn slaves who cannot be aroused, one of our Dr. Cock penis pumps can also be used by the top.

Can I combine the masturbator for forced orgasm and cum control with other bondage accessories?

Yes, you absolutely should do that, because forced ejaculation is a very special BDSM practice! Especially when your partner uses the masturbator on you, you should allow yourself to be tied to the bed with leather MEO ® bondage restraints and gagged with a mouth gag. Or you could use a blindfold; this results in an extreme increase in perception and makes forced ejaculation even more impressive for the bottom. Many subs particularly like it when the top attaches a chastity belt to them after forced ejaculation.

How do I clean the masturbator for forced orgasm and what lubricant should I use?

Only use water-based lubricating gels such as our Aquameo. Lubricants containing silicone can damage the high-quality material of the CUMELOT CUM CONTROL ® masturbator. After use, you can clean the masturbator with soap and water. For thorough, hygienic cleaning, we recommend our VERYCLEAN spray.

Further details:

• CUMELOT BDSM CUM CONTROL
• Stimulator for forced orgasm & cum control
• Offers a completely new kind of sensation compared to a hand, vagina, anus or mouth
• The handy size of the masturbator allows you to take it with you wherever you go
• Material: Medical silicone, ABS.
• 10 pulsation programs
• Splash-proof
• Rechargeable using the USB cable included
• Charging time: approx. 2 hours
• Operating time: Approx. 1 - 1.5 hours when fully charged
• Dimensions: Diameter approx. 3.9 cm = 1.5 inch, Length approx. 8.5 cm = 3.4 inches